Don’t Get Attached Too Soon

By Bhavani Kannan
February 15th, 2017

One of the most common mistakes for young people and those that don’t date often is to getting attached early on. It is seen all the time. It’s very easy to do. You meet someone really cute with a great personality and you start spending more and more time together in a very short period of time. It feels so good to be around them that you just want to be with them. The problem with this is that all new romantic affairs start with an intense honeymoon period, sometimes even if they begin on a fun chat line. Everything feels especially great and you are numb to any red flags. Pet peeves and outright anger inducing traits seem cute, quirky, and insignificant. So how do you avoid this? Don’t worry, you don’t have to sequester yourself and make a vow of chastity or commit yourself to a life of casual, no strings attached sex. It’s easy, just date more and hold off becoming exclusive. That’s it.

Call the free chat line number to find out a great way to do that. You can meet lots of people and always have a few special people you like to see. It’s ok if you really like one or two and you date them a lot, just make sure you leave room to meet new people. When you stop being thirsty for a relationship, you’ll start appreciating the people you date more and understanding what works and what doesn’t. Red flags become more apparent and you won’t be so afraid to say goodbye when they aren’t quite what you’re looking for. There are thousands of people calling our fun chat line and a lot of them want the same thing, fun short and long term dating with no serious commitment. You can always decide to become exclusive later on. If they can’t wait for you, maybe they’re not the person for you. It means they care more about having a relationship than who they are in a relationship with.