Intermittent Phone Sex: What, Why, and How

By Carisa Grandon
December 27th, 2021

What is phone sex?

Phone sex is the act of mutual masturbation on the phone with strangers. It’s engaging in conversations about what turns you on with hot strangers! You can talk about your wet dreams, favorite sexual positions, hot past sex experiences, and learn more about your new phone friends.

 

Phone sex promotes healthy release, getting rid of unwanted stress. It also helps you feel connected with others in intimate moments! Phone sex is light-hearted and carefree. You and horny strangers can use your imagination to co-create dirty sex conversations and role-playing scenarios.

 

Mutual masturbation over the phone is unlike any other sexual experience you will have! Even though you are alone in your home, you don’t have to be bored of masturbation when you have a friend in your ear.

 

What is intermittent phone sex?

Just like intermittent fasting, intermittent phone sex is when you have phone sex for a while and then don’t for a period of time. Phone sex can truly do wonders to ease stress, boost confidence, improve communication, and connect you with others.

 

By engaging in phone sex with strangers, you will likely learn new things and open yourself to new possibilities. It gives you a consistent opportunity to meet new people, talk about your desires, and use your imagination!

 

You never have to worry for your safety or unwanted emotional attachments because if a call goes awry, you always have the option to change subjects or move to another caller. Plus, anonymous phone sex ensures you will never have to speak with the stranger more than once.

 

Phone sex is whatever you make it! Even if you bring up similar topics when you speak with horny strangers, you’ll have fresh experiences every time because each person brings their vibes and perspectives to a call.

 

When is it best to have nice phone sex?

In terms of when you should have nice phone sex it depends on you! The chatlines are open 24 hours a day and every day of the week for your convenience.

 

You can speak with people far and wide and chat it up about kinks, fetishes, and fantasies! There are no rules besides the boundaries you set for yourself during the calls. Intermittent phone sex can provide you a sense of clarity of what you want and also how to communicate your sexual needs and wishes.

 

Plenty of people have difficulty speaking about sex but by getting comfortable communicating what you want, you’re more likely to get it. Phone sex is all about what feels good to you. It’s about finding your pleasure points and having an exchange with someone else who is doing the same thing.

 

Phone sex can be perfect if you recently got out of a serious relationship, are exploring your sexuality for the first time, rekindling a spark with your partner and or yourself, and more! It can be great for trying new things, learning about where you stand with desire in the moment, and boosts your self-esteem.

 

What to talk about on the phone chat platform

Nothing is off limits when it comes to topics to discuss. Whatever is on your mind or whatever is communicated in the moment is fine and there’s no need to over think it. Topics that tend to be discussed are sexual fantasies, wet dreams, fetishes and kinks, dirty talk, and whatever comes to mind in the moment.

 

One thing to keep in mind is to ask phone friends open-ended questions about topics you’re interested in. By doing so you’ll easily remain engaged in the conversation because you like what’s being talked about.

 

                        Sexual fantasies

Sexual fantasies make us horny and it’s very erotic to hear what others must communicate about their sexual desires and imaginations. You can easily find out if you’re on the same sexual wavelength by hearing what others communicate.

 

You may also learn something new about yourself such as when a phone pal brings up a fantasy you’ve never heard before and you get turned on! This may open the door to what’s arousing for you, and you can find new ways to get off too.

 

                        Wet dreams

Have you ever had a wet dream? You wake up and you may have even seen cum! Now you can relive your dreams with naughty strangers. Ask phone pals about their wet dream experiences and feel free to share yours.

 

You can also get creative and just develop a fantasy or wet dream experience with your phone friends. Go back and forth speaking and listening to about what arouses you, while touching yourself! You can even cum on the phone!

 

                        Fetishes and kinks

Fetishes are an attraction to an object, body part, clothing, and more. Kinks are nonconventional sexual practices. Both can be discussed on the phone sex talk platform. These may be the gateway to start having amazing phone sex! You don’t have to hold back or be shy about what arouses you because the more you open up, the more you notice about yourself and others.

 

There are many fetishes that phone friends may bring up during conversation and while it may not be your fetish, you can still explore their sexual interests. Think of it as if you do something nice for a horny stranger, they will also want to do something special for you.

 

                        Whatever you want

Feel free to talk about whatever pops up for you. You may want to chat about your day, or you may want to keep the focus on your phone friend. Go with the flow and see what happens. Usually, you’ll find yourself having great mutual masturbation sessions.

 

There are no topics that are crossing a line or out of bounds. If you don’t like what someone is speaking about, chime in, and change the conversation. There’s no reason to remain on a call if the vibes are off because there are hundreds of people active on the chatlines.