There are a whole lot of movements going on now that are talking about consent. There is the #metoo campaign and Hollywood’s exposure of some pretty bad guys. The whole thing has made guys pretty nervous about what to do in a hook up. Some people think that getting affirmative consent isn’t that hot, but knowing that your partner is having a great time is pretty sexy so why not give it a try before you knock it? How it works is that you just make sure your partner is enthusiastic about everything that is happening. Say you want to go down on them. Instead of just slowly moving towards their “downstairs” you say, “Gee, I’d really like you munch on that carpet. Would that be fun for you?”
Then if they seem really into it, you can go for it. But if they seem not that into it or don’t want you to do it, you don’t! It’s really that simple so you should just give it a try. If knowing that your partner loves what your doing is a turn on then this will be easy for you. Sex should be fun for both of the people involved. If it’s not, then why do it in the first place?
Don’t have anyone to try this out with in the first place? Well then it is time to get on the phone line for dating. There you can meet all sorts of singles who want to hang out with you and get to know you on the chat line. If you don’t have anything planned you can just talk on the phone for the whole night and soak up all your time thinking about what fun it is to have a good time having phone chat and phone sex!