Is there such a thing as too much phone sex? Some people may think that even a little phone sex is too much with the argument of saying it’s just masturbation but people who are on the chat lines know it’s so much more that that. Phone sex comes down to being about connecting with another person. You share your intimate thoughts, feelings, and sensations with another. This calls for vulnerability and connection between you and your phone friend. You also may share intimate fantasies or together create a sexual scenario. In other words, you use your imagination to share a world that only exists between you and your phone lover. In my book, there is nothing wrong with that and in fact, the world needs more of it
So when someone you know criticizes you for having a lot of phone sex simply ask him or her if they have tried it before. If the answer is no, there remarks could stem from a fear of the unknown. You may be able to help them change their minds about phone sex by encouraging him or her to try it out.
As you may or may not know, the chat lines are open no matter the day or time. So you can call if you can’t sleep and speak with someone. Also if you are bored during your work break, you can call the chat lines and talk to someone about anything you want to. I really don’t think there is such a thing as too much phone sex. People who say that are either ignorant or possibly jealous of your active love life.
As always if for whatever reason you don’t connect with someone over the chat lines, you will often tell within the first few moments. Hang up the call whenever you deem important and you can always reconnect with someone new as there are hundreds of people on the chat lines at any given time.
