What to Look For in a Date

By Bhavani Kannan
June 29th, 2016
african american business woman talking on a cell phone in front of an office building

If you’re looking for a relationship on the Talk121 chat lines, you can definitely find that. How will you know if your potential date is relationship ready? There are many signs and subtle signals to look for. The first step to getting on the dating train is picking up the phone and talking to someone on the other end of a Talk121 chat line.

  1. They Don’t Play Games

People who don’t play “hard to get” are ready for a relationship. Sure, games can be fun, but when it is time to get down to business, people are more likely to be straightforward, open and honest with you. Doesn’t it feel good to be wanted?

2. They’re Falling For You Before You Fall for Them

Some people fall hard and fast, some take a little while to warm up. If you notice that someone is falling hard for you, then you’ll know they’re more ready for something special than not. Even if it takes you a little longer to get into the groove, it’s a nice feeling.

3. They Ask You to Open Up

Someone who asks you about your personal life and shows concern wants you to be vulnerable, which is the key point in a relationship. If you can be vulnerable with someone then it’s a good sign that a person is ready for a serious dating relationship.

4. Showing Interest

Showing interest is the number one sign that a person is ready for something fun with you. When someone shows interest in you they do all of the things listed above. Asking you out on the phone is a sure sign that a potential match is interested in something. You’ll just have to go out with them to find out what it is!