Do you remember those days before cell phones were even a thing, yet, and you were bored at home making faces in the mirror? You’d practice making the angriest face possible, you’d see how goofy your laughing face looked, and you’d even practice your big begging-eyes look for those moments when you asked your parents for an extra scoop of ice cream.
All of these faces are actually practice for when you become older and you pick up social cues through facial expressions so that you might know what other people want, to a degree, or at least how they feel about current topics or situations. What happens when you’re on the phone with a stranger, though, and you’re trying to pick up on those social cues when you can’t see their facial expressions? How do you know what they want from you and what they enjoy most in your sexual encounters over the phone? Gaging reactions and learning new ways to identify cues might be difficult, but taking the time to discover them will make you one of the best phone sex chat line partners anywhere on the phones.
With phone sex, auditory cues will become your best friend. Just like facial expressions, voice inflections and differences in tones will be a little bit different for everyone, but the general changes are the same for everyone in relation to their normal tone.
When you’ve begun talking to someone for the first time through Talk121, you’re hearing their normal voice. It may be slightly higher than normal if they’re nervous or flirtatious, but it won’t be far off from normal. Chatting for a few minutes with this voice will be vital in determining pitch changes which are the voice version of changing expressions.
As you chat, ask questions to see how their pitch and speed change in certain situations. Asking about something happy or exciting will cause them to speak a little louder and faster than their normal pitch. Asking about something that makes them horny, like what their fantasy is, will make their voice drop a bit lower and they may even have a certain “huskiness” in their voice. Combined with clear and crisp words, both of these are great cues that the conversation is going well, and they are reciprocating the excitement!
Adversely, if their volume drops and they begin to mumble while speaking slowly, this signifies they don’t really enjoy where the conversation is going, and you should change the topic. Just like practicing expressions in the mirror, practice saying certain this with different expressions when you’re alone. Hear the difference in how you say something while smiling versus when you’re frowning. This will give you a huge advantage in identifying the voice changes in others.
Being able to identify voice changes and auditory cues in your phone chats will make you seem like the most attentive and considerate partner possible, and you’ll end up with chat partners lined for days with the desire to enjoy an intimate moment with you!
