BHM stands for big handsome man. It is kind of the male equivalent of BBW which stands for big beautiful woman. A big handsome man is a guy who is well, big! You might call them fat, husky or large, and there are tons of women who appreciate a guy with a little extra around his middle, and a little chunk to his thigh. There’s no shame in being a BHM, in fact, some guys feel it is something to be proud of! Own your body and be happy with the way it looks. BHMs embody that attitude to get the girls they want.