Glossary

A switch is a person who is versatile in their sexual role. Sometimes they may play the top or dominant person and other times they may play the bottom or...

Breath play is a type of sexual play where one partner controls or limits their breath. It can include choking and holding the breath and can be done by self...

Aftercare refers to the time after sex (usually a BDSM scene) where the top or dominant person delivers emotional and physical care to their partner(s). Talk with like-minded people on...

Vanilla sex is a term often used in kink communities such as a BDSM community to refer to sexual behavior and activities that doesn’t include kink. No matter what kind...

A dragon’s tail refers to a type of whip that is extremely painful and has a broad triangular piece of suede or leather that tapers down to a point. It’s...