One of the biggest frustrations we face in a polyamorous lifestyle is finding someone to add to—or just play with—your polycule. You can find yourself meeting the perfect person, but they just don’t get along with your other partners. A huge part of the poly lifestyle is finding a cohesive way to love multiple partners without leaving anyone out.
But what does this have to do with phone sex?
When you want to enjoy intimacy, but you have a certain type that doesn’t mix well with your other partners, phone chats let you enjoy the game. With a phone call, you have the ability to “play the field” with much fewer limits than going out. While you won’t be talking in person, you can still enjoy the experience of intimate moments with another polyamorous person.
Also, when you call, you get to avoid the potential awkward moment of having to explain what poly means. Phone chats cut out the fear of explaining just to be ghosted. You won’t run into anyone who refuses to understand your lifestyle because everyone you call already gets it.
If you’re looking to add to your polycule, but you don’t want to commit because your type doesn’t mesh well, consider phone chats. No real physical commitment means you won’t necessarily need to amend any jealousy in your polycule. You get to have a virtual experience with a lifestyler who already understands polyamory, but you don’t have any pressure to be fully inclusive. However, you could be.
If you want to include your partner—or partners—you have that option. You can call and have an entire polycule get together with some very sexy chats. Or, your phone call could be a more intimate experience for a few members of your circle. Phone calls allow any style of poly chats because the person you’re talking to is lifestyle friendly.
Add another partner experience to your polycule with a phone chat—or phone sex. You can involve your partners, or have a more private encounter. Either way, calling a lifestyler cuts out a lot of unnecessary drama. Get right to the easy part of being polyamorous–the fun, uniquely diverse, experiences with multiple partners.
